Hi, I am an ordinary guy with [somewhat] extraordinary kinks. Strict upbringing meant I didnt get to explore parts of my kinky side. I am getting to stage of life where my views about the world is changing (no, not midlife crisis, yet). I would like to talk to people about their real life experiences as well as fantasies. Throughing in the mix a bit of philosophy , sharing your everyday interests like books, movies, activities you like , would give a more human dimension to our conversation …would male it more meaningful, more relatable.